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Life hasn’t been easy for us. Illness, caregiving, fear, and uncertainty have shaped our days — but so have love, loyalty, and quiet strength. This is the story of two people doing their best to hold on to each other, and to hope, as the world around them keeps shifting.
We’re sharing this not to seek pity, but to invite compassion — and maybe, a little light on the road ahead.

We’re sharing our story to show what it means to hold on to love and hope — even when life becomes deeply uncertain.

Most of you reading this know us personally — but perhaps not all the details of our story. That’s why we’ve written these words: for those who know us, but may not know everything, and also for those who found this page through our family, friends, or someone who felt moved to share it. We’re grateful you’re here, and we want you to truly know who we are.

Who we are, and why we’ve opened our story to you

We are a couple in our early 50s, bound together by love, years of shared memories, and — in recent times — a journey through hardship we never could’ve anticipated. Life has a way of placing unexpected mountains in our path. For us, that mountain came in the form of a slow-moving, merciless disease: multiple sclerosis.

My wife has lived with MS for years now — a chronic illness that gradually affects the brain and spinal cord. No two cases are exactly the same, but for her, it has meant an increasingly steep loss of physical independence. She used to walk freely, cook, garden, even dance with me in our kitchen. Today, her body no longer allows her to do most of those things. Each day is unpredictable. Some days, her legs simply won’t support her. Some days, the fatigue and pain are so overwhelming that speaking is an effort. Tasks most take for granted — like getting out of bed or brushing teeth — require help, patience, and energy we don’t always have.

For several years, I’ve been her full-time caregiver. It’s not a title I asked for, but it’s one I accept with pride and love. Still, I won’t lie — it’s hard. Watching the person you love struggle, knowing there’s no cure, and feeling helpless as their world gets smaller… it changes you. I handle medications, prepare meals, manage appointments, clean, lift, comfort, reassure. I wake at night when she calls. I carry the weight of both our lives. And though I do all this without hesitation — because I love her more than words could ever say — I’d be lying if I said it didn’t wear me down at times. But love is what keeps us going.

For several years, I’ve been her full-time caregiver. It’s not a title I asked for, but it’s one I accept with pride and love. Still, I won’t lie — it’s hard. Watching the person you love struggle, knowing there’s no cure, and feeling helpless as their world gets smaller… it changes you. I handle medications, prepare meals, manage appointments, clean, lift, comfort, reassure. I wake at night when she calls. I carry the weight of both our lives. And though I do all this without hesitation — because I love her more than words could ever say — I’d be lying if I said it didn’t wear me down at times. But love is what keeps us going.

And even in all this, we’ve tried to remain hopeful. We’ve learned to appreciate what we still have: the quiet mornings, the birds outside the window, the deep conversations that come from facing something so raw together. We laugh when we can. We cry when we need to. We find strength in the small rituals — a cup of tea, a gentle touch, the look in each other’s eyes that says, “We’re still here. We’re still us.” Our relationship is built not on ease or comfort, but on devotion, endurance, and the unshakable belief that life, even when hard, is still worth living fully.

But beyond the illness, there’s another shadow we live under — one that has nothing to do with medicine.

We live in Europe, in a country where the stability we once took for granted has begun to feel fragile. The war in Ukraine brought this painfully close to home. Like many others, we’ve watched the news with growing fear: rising military tension, social unrest, talk of escalation. It’s no longer possible to pretend that “it won’t happen here.” The truth is, we no longer feel safe. We worry about what the future holds — not just for us, but for everyone. And that fear weighs especially heavily when you’re caring for someone vulnerable. What happens if supplies are cut? If borders close? If conflict spreads? Where do we go?

We live in Europe, in a country where the stability we once took for granted has begun to feel fragile. The war in Ukraine brought this painfully close to home. Like many others, we’ve watched the news with growing fear: rising military tension, social unrest, talk of escalation. It’s no longer possible to pretend that “it won’t happen here.” The truth is, we no longer feel safe. We worry about what the future holds — not just for us, but for everyone. And that fear weighs especially heavily when you’re caring for someone vulnerable. What happens if supplies are cut? If borders close? If conflict spreads? Where do we go?

This dual pressure — the private challenge of chronic illness and the public uncertainty of a changing world — pushed us to ask a terrifying but necessary question: What if we left?

At first, it felt impossible. We’re not wealthy. We don’t have connections abroad. But slowly, piece by piece, we began researching, dreaming, imagining a different kind of life. Not a life of luxury — just one of peace. One where we could wake up in the morning and not feel fear in our chest. One where my wife could sit outside in a warm breeze without worrying about cold weather making her symptoms worse. A place where we could be safe, quiet, and human again.

We found hope in an unlikely place: Paraguay. A small country, often overlooked, but with a gentle pace of life, a warm climate, and a deep respect for simplicity. We read stories of others who relocated there and found healing — not through medicine, but through peace. We began to believe: Maybe this could be our second sunrise.

That’s where the name of this project comes from. It’s not just a name — it’s a symbol of everything we hope for. A second chance. A fresh morning. A new life rising after long darkness.

But here’s the truth: we cannot do this alone.

We’ve never been people to ask for help. It’s hard. Vulnerability doesn’t come easy. But we’ve reached a point where pride must step aside for possibility. That’s why we created this website — not to make a grand statement, but simply to share our story with those who care to listen. With our family, our friends, and perhaps even strangers who feel moved to be part of something quietly meaningful.

Every part of this dream — moving, settling, creating a modest but safe home — requires resources we don’t currently have. That’s why we’re accepting support through Bitcoin, one of the few ways we can receive help safely and directly, no matter where you are in the world. We’ve chosen this path not because it’s trendy, but because it gives us control, privacy, and a way to stay grounded in a turbulent time.

Our Second Sunrise

A Journey of Hope, Home and Healing

If you’ve read this far, thank you. Truly.
Just knowing someone has taken the time to understand our situation already gives us strength.
And if you feel called to support us — whether through a small donation, sharing our story, or simply holding us in your thoughts — please know that we see you. We feel you. And we are endlessly, humbly grateful.

This isn’t just about us. If our dream becomes real, we hope to build something that helps others too — a small place of welcome, of calm, of community. A home where people like us, who feel unsafe or unseen, can land gently and begin again.

From our hearts to yours: thank you for being part of this sunrise.

Wondering what our project’s about?

Our story is one of quiet resilience, deep love, and the will to keep going — even when everything feels uncertain. We’ve faced illness, fear, and loss, but we still believe in a better tomorrow. This dream we carry is fragile, but real — and we can’t build it alone. If our second sunrise ever rises, it will be thanks to people like you.
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